Before Brody was born I was certain I would be fine with sending him to daycare but once we had him I quickly realized that I just couldn't. Brody was so happy and easy that I was afraid he would be the baby left in a swing all day because he didn't need much to be happy. Because of this we decided to find him a nanny. Lucky for Dave and I we only had to schedule one interview before we knew we had found the perfect person to watch him while we went to work.
Kaitlyn has been more of a blessing to our family than she knows. I know that she knows that she is appreciated but until you have children and you have to leave them in the care of a complete stranger you can't put into words how wonderful it is when you find a person you completely trust with your child.
I wish that I would have known how wonderful Kaitlyn would be the nights before I had to go back to work. I would not have struggled so much the days preceding that day if I knew how great she was.
I found with Kaitlyn I have been able to go to work and devote 100% of my attention to my patients, and almost shelf my role as a parent. We never have to worry about him with her and that means the world to us. We know that he is safe, loved, and happy when he is with her. Kaitlyn is like Brody's second mother and I have never felt jealous because of how much he loves her. My friend Jackie once told me that we have to remember that this parenting journey is ultimately not about us but about our children. It is because of this, that I couldn't be happier that Brody loves Kaitlyn as much as he loves Dave and I. His eyes light up when he sees her, and she has even taught me about him. It was Kaitlyn that figured out that if you pat his butt and rub his head you can get him to sleep in a matter of minutes.
I know that tomorrow will be hard for all of us but I am so happy for Kaitlyn as she takes the next step in her life. She is to good for us to keep to ourselves and I know she will touch so many hearts as a teacher. We all will definitely keep in touch and I am happy to have gained a new one of a kind friend in my life. We have been so blessed to have had her watch Brody during this fragile period of his life, and for this I am so grateful. Tomorrow I will try hard to remember how lucky we have been instead of being sad. We have been blessed and for that I am forever grateful.
Tummy Time |
Story Time |
Brody and Kaitlyn's Parents |
One LOVED little Boy!!!! |